Things Couples MUST do Everyday Before Sleeping if They WANT to be Close

Thursday, July 19, 2018 0

There are some things that needs to be observed daily by couples who are looking towards having an heaven on earth relationship. These things go a long way in keeping our loved ones closer to us in peace and romance. We often wonder why some couples stay longer in relationships while others don't! It is simple, those who stay longer in relationships go through the extra mile to make their partner feel special.


Read some of these things you MUST deliberately do make your relationship work, and it has to be done daily;
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  • Switch off your phone or put in silent mode, and put it away once it gets to a certain time at night: When your phone isn’t off, you  easily get distracted on chatting or making a business phone call or a call coming through when you’re supposed to be spending the time with your partner, having dinner and discussing about various things and how your day went.
  • Forget about work: You could discuss about work yeah! not detailed but brief in order not to bore your partner. Maybe something interesting that happened, or how your escaped a bad luck and all, but don’t bring work at home and take your mind off your partner.
  • Go to bed at the same time with your partner: why exactly will you be busy with the television while your partner is asleep or what exactly are you doing when you’re supposed to be having a personal time with your partner in the bedroom. They certainly do not get enough of you during the day, when you get back home shower, have dinner together, have a chat then go to bed together in cuddle and be like a reminder in their heads where they will never get to forget you or feel uneasy when you’re not around.
  • Have a heart-to-heart talk: Always remember to have a heart to heart talk, concerning things that are bothering you, changes in your relationship and about, what needs to be improved in the family, basically anything that is bothering you or what you want to discuss about. It doesn’t necessarily have to be changed, but things that have to be looked into. It will help you guys grow and know that you confide in each other, things get easier that way.
  • Don’t argue or get into heated conversation: Sometimes, heart talks may rise to an argument because of misunderstanding. Listen before you talk, try to find a solution instead of focusing on the problem, Avoid arguments before you sleep and if there is one, make sure you settle and cuddle up before going to bed.
  • Follow a routine: get a night time schedule for a weekly routine that would help you guys stick together, like a game night time with friends or kids, cooking dinner together, movie at home or at the cinema, and so many other things that will keep you guys together.
  • Keep your bedroom child free: It’s time to go to bed, don’t let the kids in your bedroom, leave them to go to bed. Have a time to yourselves and don’t get distracted by your kids.
  • Give each other a massage: After stress of the day’s work, I guess we all deserve a massage and pat in the back. Take turns in massaging yourselves every night, so you could sleep well.
  • Finally, don’t forget about hug and kisses. Some couples forget the power of hugs and kisses on a daily basis. We get married and forget to do these little things that keep us together which is quite sad.
If you have not been doing this, start now and see how your relationship with your partner will change for the better.

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